PMS.....

Assalamualaikummmm.....

I am stressed! Helppppppp! PMS is here again! All my problems, my overthinking habits, my doubts are all here to partayyy in my brain. Luckily being grown up... (hehe if 32 is an age of grown up), I learnt to know my ways around the period of PMS and got to the perfect solution.

YA ALLAH, THE ALMIGHTY AND THE GREAT, He created us with perfection and although we think we've got it all worked out, during PMS my body and brain seem to be rebellious. Hehehehe. I can get all cranky even with the slightest distress.

Okay, the perfect solution isss....it may sound cheesy or corny or goody 2 shoes, call ot what you want, is Dzikir.

Be it,
LAA ILAAHA ILLALLAH or
ASTAGHFIRULLAH HAL AZIM or
SUBHANAALAH or
ALLAHU AKHBAR or any other dzikir.

I guarantee your heart will be at ease. Your body and mind will relax and you will be more peaceful. Take life 1 step at a time. Learn to love yourself and guide yourself towards goodness and Jannah all the time. InsyaAllah... ALLAH will guide us. MAY ALLAH GRANT US JANNAH IN THE HEREAFTER AND GUIDE US TO IT.

Wassalam...

Dunia ini hanya sementara.

Assalamualaikum ...

Sebagai manusia, aku tidak sempurna. Banyak yang aku inginkan aku mahukan namun ia bukan keperluanku, tidak bermanfaat bagi akhiratku. Tapi masih berdegil menginginkannya.
Macam-macam. Nak tengok wayang. Nak latest gadgets. Nak beli kereta. Nak beli tudung AJ,bukan sehelai. Nak banyak. Baju tak diukur di badan sendiri. Duit tak lekat di dalam dompet. So, kali ni aku saja je nak tempek kat sini gambar benda2 merapu yang aku nak...

Yeay....puas hati dpt tgk gmbr pun xpe.......

byeeeee..

Practice makes perfect!

Assalamualaikum!

Here I am assisting my kids with their homework. I don't mind at all repeating myself a couple of times or more as long as they get what they are writing or colouring. As they get older I noticed sometimes, that my daughter seem displeased with her handwriting. Thus, when she has her homework, she tend to take so long writing and rewriting. It almost seems that she would never finish! Argghh.. it gets to me everytime.
Now, almost after an hour she still hasn't finish a page.

Wassalam.
* Human aren't perfect. But our handwriting can. Keep practising baby girl.

Death of a conversation.

Assalamualaikum.

Gadgets.
Iphone. Android. Tablets. Whatnots.
How silly are we?
Do we ever stop and wonder what we really want?
All this technology.
How is it feeding our soul?
When was the last time we look at the sky?
When was the last time we sweat?
When was the last time we swim in the river? Or the sea?
When was the last time we rode a bike?

Do you remember what a rainbow looks like?
Do you remember the last time you had a pet?
Do you remember the last time you slept in a tent?

Stop. Please stop. And wonder. Or do. That is the best.
Don't be trapped.
Don't be the person who suddenly look into the mirror and then realised how old he had become. How he is too late to row a boat or ride a bike or go hiking.

Or the saddest that could happen.
You realised you end up with no one besides you.
No family.

Trying to be the best is the hardest thing in my life.

Assalamualaikum...
Here I am again. Pondering about my life as I go. Where will I end up. When will it be the end of me. May Allah grant me and all of us Jannah in the herrafter. But to say it seem to be so easy. Do we really work for it? Jannah. To earn Jannah. Our reward in the hereafter. Our faith in Allah and Prophet Muhammad pbuh is tested in this world. I'm not talking about big things. Let us start with small things.

When I am writing, please do not judge me. All that I have written here is mostly about me and how I look at this world. For instant, I am trying to teach my kids to be clean. Is seems easy but oh my it is so hard. It is all my fault. I like to teach them to be clean while myself is a bit chaotic. I am working during shift hours and sometimes my errands are done while they are at school or while they are sleeping. So, they don't always see me doing chores. Picking them up and sending them to school hardly seem hard for them, I guess. They can't imagine how tiring it is to be sending and picking up 4 kids to school everyday, each with a different schedule. Urrghhh...

Back to my small family, a few tips I like to remind myself when cleaning a small apartment are :

1) Minimise the furniture in the apartment. So that there will be more room for us humans.

2) Do not collect garbage. What I mean here is that boxes or plastic bags that come with whatever we bought must immediately be thrown out. They may look useful or pretty when we first lay eyes on it but it will only be a couple of hours that it will turn into junk and mess up your place.

3) Have minimal plates and cutleries in the kitchen so that when it is used, your kids will have no choice but to clean it because if they don't during the next mealtime they won't have any clean ones.

4) Have a different kid do a different chore and they can swap around at the end of the week.

5) Label their workstations and shelves. It gives them a sense of proudness when they each keep trying to keep their own part by being the most neat or creative.

6) Keep a schedule for each kid dividing time for school, chores, homework and playtime.

Remember that we want to keep our home clean, our kids well disciplined and our aim to Jannah be a reality. We are not trying to bully our kids or express hatred towards them. We want them to be responsible adults who are able to take care of themselves when they have grown or when we have passed.

May this bring us good results and help us bring up our sons and daughters to be good adults. InsyaAllah.

Wassalamm...

Mummiey Alone Movie Time - Avengers, Age of Ultron

Assalamualaikum....

This time around, I found a flee slot of time in the afternoon of a Saturday. I have been wanting to have my stress released when The Avengers is finally showing. So I head to my favourite cinema in Shamelin to watch. As usual I have cooked and fed all the children, went to work, make sure they are okay and went to watch after work. It was a typical superhero movie. I loved the character of Black Widow which was played by Scarlet Johansson and also adored the actor who played Hulk! All in all it wasn't so bad. GTG. Bye!

 Mark Ruffalo as Hulk

Scarlett Johansson as Black Widow - Hot bod!